Tag: relationship talk

I love my boyfriend but the problem is half of the time he acts like we’re super serious or like we’re an old married couple, he’ll want to spend all his time with me and constantly give me reassurance and validation and then when I finally get comfortable with that, something will change and he will suddenly need more space and complain how he can’t go out or hang out with his friends because he needs to spend time with me (not that i ever stop him) and how I’m really needy and its just like….. ? And then obviously I start feeling upset and insecure and my abandonment issues and anxiety start kicking in which is always fun and just make it worse. I don’t even think he’s doing that on purpose though, I think it literally depends on his mood, but this shift happens once a month or so and just makes us argue and be unhappy, and honestly….. I just need some consistency